Jordan Paris

5/12/16

Chapter 18

  • beliefs You have about People in general will affect how you deal with everyone you meet.
  • global belief ↑
  • beliefs about who we are shape what we can & cannot do.
Identity is the beliefs that we use to define our own individuality.
★ - What you see yourself as will instantly shape which capabilities you access.
  • The one thing we all count on to be constant is our identity.
★ - as we develop beliefs about who we are, our behavior will change to support the new identity
  • I'm a health nut.
  • A Shift in identity can cause a shift of your entire master system
  • we look at what we do to determine who we are.
  • There is no more Potent leverage in shaping human behavior than Identity.
  • The way you define your ID defines your life.
★ - having an ID specifically linked to your age or how you look would definitely set you up for Pain because these things change.
  • Fuse my Identity with the vision I had of who I know I will become. Begin to live as this man now.
  • "I think, therefore I am"
Who am I? I am good-looking. I am intelligent. I am a Student. I am a special athlete. I am motivated. I am warm & Friendly. I am a lifelong learner. I am outgoing. I'm optimistic.
Jordan Paris (dictionary definition) — A supremely talented, well-rounded individual who need not depend on others for happiness. He is .

"Social Proof Limits Your life"My ID card

Insert sexy Pic of Jordan here
Body fat: 7%
Toned, muscular, tan, good looks, confident
business owner, Porsche owner, millionaire, successful
Happy, Friendly, Strong, Smart,
Loving, Healthy
★ - Whatever You call your ID is simply what you've chosen to identify with.
  • "I'm not that Person anymore". You can choose to be Someone else.
(pg 428 instructions)
  1. Or like [redacted] in terms of mannerismsLike S.J. glowing Personality
Look sharp. Relaxed. Relaxed breathing. walk with confidence & assurance. Talk clearly, eloquently. good Posture
Gracious. Golden. Dreamy. I am a master Pick-up artist. fit
  1. Gracious, well-mannered, intelligent, relaxed individual. All the characteristics of that glowing Personality in which People gravitate to me. Calm. ALWAYS so cool. cool, calm, collected. Successful.
  2. Spend time with SJ. . Spend time with Matt, uncle Brian. check myself everyday.
★★ 4. The final step is to commit to your new ID by broadcasting it to everyone around you... & yourself.
Use your new label to describe yourself everyday & it will become conditioned in you.
  • ID's must continually expand
  • "character flaws" = opportunity for growth
  • We are not our bodies (death example)
  • "we are spiritual beings having a human experience"
  • "what more can/will I be?"
  • I will consistently act as a Person who is already achieving these goals. I will breathe/move this way. I will respond to People this way. I will treat People this way. Become that Person... Decide to think, feel, & act as the Person I want to be
★ - Forget your Past. who have you decided you really are now.

Taking Notes

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